I like sensuality and people that are comfortable with their sex. One of my biggest turn-ons would have to be kissing and licking all up and down my body before having plunging in. Get me moistened up to experience the ultimate niagara falls! haha! One of my biggest turn-offs would be a man who is far too cocky for his own good, ALSO a man who thinks he knows what he's doing but clearly doesn't (don't talk shit). Size always matters as long as you know how to use what your workin' with!